“More to Love” — An Alleged Reality Show

Back in 2009, people watched a so-called “reality” dating game show whose host was a plus-size model called Emme, which may have been its only redeeming feature. Emme’s brand is “curvy and confident” and she had been, in 1994, the first plus-size model on the magazine “People’s 50 Most Beautiful” list.

The purpose of “More to Love” was to find a life partner for 26-year-old Luke Conley, who weighed over 300 pounds. So the producers recruited 20 women who weighed between 200 and 300 pounds, in hopes that he might propose to one of them. Reviewer David Hinckley generously allowed that perhaps the project aimed to “help humanize plus-size women,” but in his view, it failed. Why? Because…

Contestant after contestant confesses, in the introductory moment, that they don’t like being big. They not only don’t like being big, they hate that they have tried to be thin and failed.

He theorized that the 20 contestants — five of whom were immediately jettisoned in the first round — were involved with the show out of sheer desperation. One of them had never been asked out on a date. Another had experienced three first dates; period. A third was an actual rocket scientist whose dating game was at grade-school level. The others included a waitress, a teacher, a fitness instructor, and a motivational speaker. One wept and asked, “What if I’m alone for the rest of my life because I’m overweight?”

Hinckley characterized this outburst as “up-front oversharing.” However, in the context of sensationalized vicarious emotional angst marketed as entertainment, excess is exactly what the audience is hungry for, and maybe oversharing could more accurately be described as feeding the psychic vampires. He, for some reason, held the possibly naive belief that “there’s no pleasure in watching… sadness.” On the contrary! Viewers eat this stuff up and ask for more.

Home influence

It was Bachelor Conley’s mother who convinced him to take a chance with “More to Love.” She figured his odds of meeting The One were as good there as anywhere else. (And when 20 potential life-mates are just served up like chicken wings on a platter, it seems like deciding to participate would be a no-brainer.)

There was a spa date with six of the contestants, then a one-on-one encounter for a couple’s foot massage, and another for a double wine bath. There were conversations. and one of the women told him she didn’t like thinking about him being with the others. Another shared the sadness of losing her mother as a child. Luke told her he loved her sexy confidence.”

Journalist Kari Croop from Common Sense Media assured parents that despite some spicy dialogue and on-camera makeout sessions, “More to Love” was actually “a lot tamer than other reality dating competitions,” with overall a quite positive tone — “It’s all about accepting people for who they are inside.” The content offered an opportunity for family discussions about weight. Croop remarked,

It means well, but it loses points for things like posting how much participants weigh alongside their name, age, and occupation. After all, if who we are inside is what’s truly important, why is that necessary? Is the show sending girls positive messages about body image, or is it sending mixed signals? Would the show be substantively different if the person looking for love was a plus-sized woman instead of a plus-sized man?

Indeed. It did seem to send the message that while the chance to compete against other large ladies is the best that an obese women can hope for, a corpulent man is entitled to have his pick of the crop. A woman caller to a talk show said,

If the intent was to show that overweight women can be just as alluring and glamorous as the size two models on “The Bachelor,” it failed miserably. The focus was still on how fat they were, and they came off as pathetic.

The majority of the viewing audience is probably overweight but I’m sure they have no desire to watch people who look just like them in this type of reality show. We prefer to escape the reality of our own less-than-perfect bodies by identifying with beautiful people.

Fat activist Marianne Kirby did not find “More to Love” inspirational, and was asked by an interviewer if the show challenged stereotypes or actually perpetuated them. She replied,

It’s also a lot of women crying about how this is their last chance at love, which really does play into this being a spectacle.
If you watch the regular version of “The Bachelor,” there’s no food at that cocktail party, much less chicken teriyaki, meat on a stick dripping all over their fancy dresses.

There’s all of this great message of acceptance stuff. But there’s all this backhanded, we’re-still-going-to-make-fun-of-you, you know, stuff going on in the editing and the casting and the way people are portrayed.

Kirby also remarked that she doesn’t mind fat jokes — it’s just that none of the ones she has ever heard are funny.

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “FOX reality show ‘More to Love’ weighed down by sad confessions from plus-size participants,” NYDailyNews.com, 07/26/09
Source: “More to Love,” LATimes.com, 2009
Source: “More to Love,” CommonsenseMedia.org, 2009
Source: “The Plus-Sized Romance Of ‘More To Love,” NPR.org, 07/29/09
Images by Igor Grabar and DanilKuzn/Public Domain

“My Mad Fat Diary” — A Series

The British series “My Mad Fat Diary,” set in 1996, lasted three seasons or 16 episodes. Young Rae Earl (played by Sharon Rooney) spends four months in a mental health institution, because of depression, body image problems, and self-harm. (In England, mad means crazy, not angry.) To complicate matters, her mother has a new husband and is expecting a baby. Rae thinks of herself as a “pointless blob” and utters humorous voiceover narration about her “turbulent” life.

Vulture reviewer David Renshaw wrote,

Scenes between Rae and psychiatrist Dr. Kester are something of a pressure release valve, allowing her to voice her insecurities out loud, safely, and consequence-free.

After being discharged, she returns to school where bullies call her Jabba. She finds a friend group, and manages to keep them ignorant of her spell in the psych hospital. In one episode, the gang has a pool party, and Rae gets stuck in a slide and unintentionally reveals the scars left over from cutting herself. Still, she manages to turn it into a laugh.

Against all odds, she attracts Finn, “the handsome and desired one of her group,” and they engage in a lot of amorous activity. To her surprise, Rae learns that she is not the only adolescent experiencing anxiety and dread. Renshaw also wrote that the series “refuses to let its characters be shamed or embarrassed by the things they fear.”

But negative events continue to happen. A fellow mental hospital patient and friend dies from over-exercising and refusing to eat. Meanwhile, there are still bullies in Rae’s life

Real life

The show has been called unusually honest about mental health problems, as well as uplifting and perfectly cast. Not surprisingly, the series was based on a non-fiction book (and its sequel) by the real Rae Earl. In 2015 she published an article reflecting on the surprising popularity of her story. She came of age in the 1980s,

But some things absolutely resonate with teenagers today. My awkwardness, my hatred of my body, my absolute sense that everyone “had it all sorted” and had a better life than me. Sadly those things are not going to go away. Neither will that most acute of existential adolescent problems – the feeling that somehow, in some way, you are missing out.

I know from the feedback I get that there are readers desperate to see more about ordinary young people coping with conditions like anxiety, depression, bi-polar and schizophrenia… There’s still a real need for characters who have a mental illness — but are not defined exclusively by it.

A website for parents says,

Very few shows deal with mental health and body issues as well as My Mad Fat Diary; in one poignant scene, Rae “unzips” herself and steps out to reveal a smaller body, an image that many teens dealing with the pressure to be thin can relate to.

The series was nominated for several British TV awards and won three; two for drama and one for best actress. It still has a rather cult-like following.

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “It’s Time to Start Watching My Mad Fat Diary,” Vulture.com, 04/28/22
Source: “My Mad Fat Diary box set review,” TheGuardian.com, 08/27/15
Source: “Why today’s teenagers still want to take a peek inside My Mad Fat Diary,” TheGuardian.com, 07/01/15
Source: “My Mad Fat Diary,” CommonSenseMedia.org, undated
Image by Fredrik Rubensson/CC BY-SA 2.0

A Movie About an Addict — “Luckiest Girl Alive”

“Luckiest Girl Alive,” a film that has been described as “tragedy porn,” is first of all not for kids. The protagonist is a big-city powerhouse type of woman who reminds people that she attained what is known as a “figure” by skipping lunch for six years. New York Times reviewer Amy Nicholson says that the character Ani “wears success like a bulletproof vest” and…

[…] has achieved a trifecta of status symbols: a prestigious education (acquired via scholarships), a slim body (acquired via an eating disorder), and a posh fiancé (acquired via emotional suppression).

It all began with a novel by Jessica Knoll. In the book, speaking of her upcoming wedding, Ani tells a friend she is going “Full ano,” meaning “full anorexic,” because size 2 is just too elephantine to be endured. At one point she says, “Petite is what they call short fat girls. I should know: I used to be one.” As an adult, she spends $1,200 a month on fitness training, a habit that could indicate an extremist personality.

But there is more to Ani’s story.

Flashbacks recall her teen years, when she was, in fact, not a short fat girl. Okay, at one point a high school boy calls her a “wide load,” but any female might be targeted with such a remark by a callous male who hopes to make her feel bad about herself, because negative attention is better than none. There are other glimpses of her childhood and youth and (although her alleged former obesity is not a visible theme) mental health professionals will draw their own conclusions.

Ani’s weight problem is all in her mind, planted there by her mother. The maternal psychological warfare caused her to develop body dysmorphia and an eating disorder. As a grownup, she is both a survivor who has created an ostensibly perfect life for herself, and a victim haunted by ghosts from the past. Novelist Knoll told the press that she did not intend the character to “qualify as a good, pure victim,” and eventually, the viewer finds out why. It has to do with horrific events in the past, which we won’t go into here.

The point

Recall how, in the drug world, a familiar cliche is the desperate user crawling around searching between carpet fibers for a few molecules of cocaine. In “Luckiest Girl Alive,” a great moment beautifully illustrates addiction. In this iconic scene, Ani and her future husband finish up a restaurant meal. He asks the server for a takeout box and leaves for the restroom. In an astonishing tour-de-force, Ani wolfs down the remaining pizza slices. She then compounds the deception by telling her beloved that the waitress spilled soda on the pizza — embellishing the lie with a detail that it also landed on Ani’s skirt.

What a perfect illustration of addictive behavior! No doubt this character rationalizes to herself that she is lying only to protect her fiancé. There is no point in hurting him by revealing information he doesn’t really need to know right now. Some day, when she’s better, she’ll tell them and they will laugh about it.

Part of addiction is that people get hooked on the stories they tell themselves and others. They become enamored of their own cleverness and resourcefulness, and learn to enjoy inventing an alternative reality and tricking people, even their nearest and dearest. Especially them.

No doubt Ani has convinced herself that she is doing the right thing by shielding the man from the truth, at least temporarily. In fact, if he knew the favor she is doing him by hiding the harsh truth, he would actually be grateful. Addicts can talk themselves into anything.

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “Luckiest Girl Alive by Jessica Knoll,” TheLiteraryPhoenix.com 07/18/18
Source: “Mila Kunis confronts dark truths new Netflix film ‘Luckiest Girl Alive’,” Cleveland.com. 10/05/22
Image by Photography Montreal/Public Domain

Salute to BrainWeighve’s Carly Hurt

Here is a shoutout to someone who has been an integral part of Dr. Pretlow’s projects for a long, long time. Now in her early 20s, Carly Hurt has used earlier iterations of BrainWeighve concepts for her own weight loss, and will serve as a teen coach for the clinical trial with the app. She says,

I was a part of one of Dr. P’s weight loss studies back in 2014-2015. The next year I started sharing my continued weight loss struggles with him and I began helping out with the gift of knowledge towards future studies and the app itself!

The information I have learned while working with the app has been an incredible part of my weight loss journey. Being able to share what I’ve learned about the displacement activity has not only helped me better understand it, but has helped me support those around me who also struggle with weight loss.

Carly has been awarded an associate degree with a concentration in psychology and is currently finishing up a bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education. Last year, she married her high school sweetheart, and recently they were joined by a baby boy. They plan to “teach him from a young age how to deal with weight management the way our brains were wired to!”

Carly’s use of the displacement intervention is extensively covered in this presentation, beginning at Slide 28. Don’t miss Slide 31! In Slide 33, she emphasizes the importance of making concrete, detailed plans about how to handle various aspects of an unsatisfactory situation. Again, it is apparent that actually putting things in writing is the key to effectiveness. The brain seems to recognize a written intention as something like a contract with the self.

Childhood Obesity News has, of course, noted Carly’s contributions before. Her experiences were also featured in another post discussing these topics. The archived post called “Bully Wrangling” gives a picture of her own struggles in middle school. Basically, she has had firsthand experience with the situations she now counsels younger people about. Blessed with a very wise mother, she came to the realization that one reason some kids act so ugly is a reflection of their miserable home and family backgrounds.

Carly’s Corner has been a popular area of Dr. Pretlow’s W8Loss2Go site and it carries over into the BrainWeighve app, where her helpful videos are posted. “Bullying” is one. Others in her collection address such topics as Triggers, Boredom, Displacement, Shame, Openness and Honesty, Slip-ups, and Motivation.

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Dr. Pretlow’s Presentation and BrainWeighve

The core of the reconceptualization proposed by BrainWeighve is,

Moving the opposing drives out of equilibrium, by resolving the person’s underlying problem/stressful situations, theoretically should mitigate the displacement mechanism and serve as a treatment for addictive overeating.

In addition, people are able to retrain their brains to accept, and work with, alternative displacement mechanisms that are less harmful and more helpful than eating. Other ways to use mental and physical energies include hobbies, breathing practices, running around outside, and many more. They can be called upon to substitute for the unhealthful types of eating, like recreational eating, emotional eating, and eating that happens in a futile effort to resolve the conflict of competing drives.

The Dread List

(If someone hasn’t registered that horror movie title already, it would probably be a good investment.). The Dread List feature is very popular with the kids who have given it a test run so far. For each tempting or repulsive situation, the object is to develop a specific plan and try it out. (And of course, it’s never too late to mention, the subconscious part of your brain is much more likely to join in a group effort, if you take the trouble to communicate with it by hand, either in writing or printing.) If that plan doesn’t give satisfaction, then regroup, course-correct, and devise a new plan.

A road out of the swamp

Help is available in the form of coping strategies suggested by other young people who have found them useful. By the same token, every new participant in the BrainWeighve program has the opportunity to contribute to the world by adding their successful strategies to the community’s wisdom trove.

Of course, a person can make a dread list and a plan list for personal use only. There is no compulsion to share. But then you start to realize that, if you share, someone very much like you will discover that they’re not the only 14-year-old who hates to shop for clothes, and that will be a good thing. So you take as much privacy as you need, until you feel comfortable contributing to the conversation.

But wait, there’s more

The purpose of the BrainWeighve phone app is not just to encourage the user to adapt to different, non-caloric displacement activities. That might be called (unkindly) just another method of running away from problems. Learning to make constructive use of the overflow brain energy is a step, a necessary and very useful step, and a powerful tactic that can help every day as life progresses.

But non-fattening activities alone are not the whole answer, or the ultimate solution to any one problem. Discovering more adaptive displacement activities is a stage, not a destination. The program goes further, and actively encourages facing up to difficult situations and dealing with them in appropriate and effective ways. What’s not to like about that?

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: Robert Pretlow, M.D., Suzette Glasner, eHealth International of Seattle, WA, and UCLA Integrated Substance Abuse Program

Dr. Pretlow’s Obesity Week Presentation

The two references for this post are Dr. Pretlow’s recent talk at the Obesity Week conference in San Diego (audio recording) and the visual aspect, the poster illustrating and describing the basic concepts behind the question, “Should Obesity and Eating Addiction Be Reconceptualized as Displacement Behavior?”.

Why is the apparent food addiction that leads to obesity, like other addictions, so difficult to control? Because no matter what the problem, chances are that ingesting more substances, including food, will be inappropriate to the situation, and will go exactly 0% of the way toward alleviating it.

In the animal kingdom, if a bird is threatened with some kind of hostile situation and pauses to tidy its feathers, this displacement behavior might simply delay the necessity to choose between fight or flight. Or maybe the enemy will become bored or distracted, and move on. In either case, the decision to take a preening break might not do permanent harm.

On the other hand, if a student is unable to decide whether to show up for an exam or skip school, eating an entire pizza offers no possible benefit. Whether the choice ends up being fight or flight, or even staying up and studying all night, the person will likely still be heavier at their next weigh-in. Pizza consumption is, in other words, a maladaptive displacement behavior.

No surprise

It comes as no surprise that the conclusion drawn from the trials done so far by eHealth International of Seattle, Washington, and UCLA’s Integrated Substance Abuse Program is,

Reconceptualization of obesity and eating addiction as displacement behavior may be warranted and treated accordingly.

In some cases, displacement behavior can be adaptive, though in many other cases, the opposite is true. As the poster says, “Sheep threatened by a predator will graze despite the danger.” People threatened by an unfaceable situation will eat, both the wrong stuff and a lot of it.

When such a conflict is underway, the conflicting impulses to follow two competing drives can build up “an overflow of mental energy that expresses itself in a third drive, in this case, feeding.” Once the brain has generated a lot of energy that has to go somewhere, then what?

Displacement

Maybe, what comes along next is a sensory cue — the smell of baking pizza, or the sight of a bag of chips on the kitchen counter, or the voice of a TV huckster whose job is to convince the viewer that she or he cannot survive for another minute without a raft of peanut butter cups. “The displacement mechanism is triggered by sensory cues,” say Dr. Pretlow and coauthor Suzette Glasner, Ph.D.

And contemporary life is full of those cues. We can barely turn around without being confronted by the sight of food. In fact, we don’t even have to move. A perfectly stationary person can be beleaguered by cues that demand, “Think about eating!” Social media platforms are full of not only advertising, but the favorite recipes of our online friends, and photos of their brunch plates.

Broadcast media need advertising to pay their bills, and will bombard a person nonstop with reminders to chow down. We are constantly being cajoled. “Got a problem? Eat. Is somebody mad at you? Buy them something to eat. Do you want to be popular and beloved? Bring food. Are you sad because bringing food didn’t make you popular after all? Eat more.”

In some quarters, the idea of intermittent fasting has caught on. If only we could have intermittent advertising, like maybe a 12-hour truce each day without any reminders of food. But the world doesn’t work like that.

(To be continued…)

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: Robert Pretlow, M.D., Suzette Glasner, eHealth International of Seattle, WA, and UCLA Integrated Substance Abuse Program

Everything You Know About Journaling Is Wrong

A lot of people have a concept of journaling as something kind of lame, only suitable for crying over a lost love or cataloging the most recent insults offered by the world. But any writing down of thoughts and plans could technically be called journaling. And it really doesn’t matter if you tear up the paper when you’re done, or burn it, or lock it in a safe for some day when you write your memoir. The point right now is to look at journaling in light of the concepts embodied by BrainWeighve. As the app says, the excess brain energy that leads to behavior like overeating can be used for better purposes (see illustration):

The good news is that you can control your displacement mechanism, and your overeating will stop.

A winning strategy can be to rechannel that energy into other purposes, as many as you please, and journaling might as well be one of them. Deliberately redirect the overflow energy into developing the hand-brain connection through, for instance, journaling.

Incidentally, when the communication system between hand and brain is purposefully cultivated, the benefit just might overflow into other activities. For instance, for any musician, from violinist to drummer, that connection needs to be in tip-top condition. Your brain can know every note of a concerto, but it’s your fingers that have to hit the right strings. Your brain can devise the most intoxicating rhythm ever, and it’s a total waste if the fingers and hands can’t pick up the message and convey it to the listeners’ ears.

Your brain wants to work for your benefit

The point is, the hand has a direct line to the brain, and it runs both ways. When you write about how difficult it is to not grab everything on the buffet table, a message goes to the subconscious: “Take this seriously.” Later, when you’re at the actual event, the brain returns the favor by messaging, “Put that hand back in your pocket and keep walking.”

So now, you have the content to fill out one of the problem/solution portions of the BrainWeighve app. You can catalog it there for your own sake, a private plan, for the next time you’re in trouble. When you feel confident in a workable idea, you might at some point decide to share it with others in the same troubling situation. This 12-minute video also says some things about how to make decisions, and how to identify and shake off useless old beliefs. (Quite often those two are closely related.)

In another medium, certified hypnotherapist Laura Irwin wrote,

Journaling came into my life at a crossroads when I realized I was out of touch with many of my emotions and shoved them down to focus on the problem to be analyzed, but emotions are more complex than that. Journaling became a window into my inner life; a profound tool for self awareness. When you access and utilize the power of your subconscious, your subconscious mind and your conscious mind are in sync and begin working together to achieve a common goal.

Irwin outlines six different journaling techniques. One is to begin with sentence fragments which you go on to complete, such as “If I weren’t afraid, I would…” or “Eating healthier would be easier if…” Another is doodling, in specific ways and with a specific purpose. Taking a close, conscious look at your dreams is another. She also describes several different ways to initiate and conduct a dialogue with oneself, and sums up by listing the many benefits of journaling.

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “How to Reprogram Your Subconscious Through Journaling,” YouTube, 2020
Source: “6 Subconscious Journaling Techniques,” InspiredMeditations.com, 09/21/20

Teen People — Parallel Tracks Make a Smoother Ride

BrainWeighve has something in common with other effective programs. Additional techniques can be used along with the app’s suggestions, to strengthen and reinforce your intention. Childhood Obesity News has mentioned writing (or printing) by hand, and there is still more to consider about that.

Did you ever run into a problem, an obstacle between you and the goal you wanted or needed to complete? And then you switched frequencies, and did something completely different for a while, and put your mind on other things, and all of a sudden the answer just popped into your head?

Sometimes, all your brain needs is time to process the data in peace, and it will present you with a clear and workable solution. If you lost an important object, the subconscious might give you a dream that shows where the thing is. Your subconscious mind can be a powerful ally, and a lot of the time it is just hanging around waiting to be of service as your efficient intern. (Internal…. intern….. ha ha!)

Brain — listen up!

Apparently, it is possible to amp up that process by sending your inner self some clues about which parts of a crowded life really matter the most. Take the lost wallet, for instance. Sit yourself down and write or print, “I will find my wallet” 30 or 50 times. As we have seen, the hand and brain share a unique connection, and handwriting (or printing, or maybe even doodling) is a splendid way to let the subconscious know that you expect something from it.

The illustration on this page shows two of the places where collaboration between hand and brain and BrainWeighve can be useful. These are exactly the kinds of thoughts that “writing a letter to your brain” could help that gray blob to understand that you mean business. All day long, stuff flows in through the eyes and goes out through the thumbs pushing buttons. But when information comes in by an unusual method, like forming letters on paper with a pencil or pen — well, then the brain has to sit up and take notice.

More ways to enhance the BrainWeighve experience

Another way to create change, which is particularly useful to athletes, is “mental rehearsal.” In the eating realm, such rehearsals could consist of practicing, inside our own heads, various ways of saying no to the people in our lives. We can visualize being shown to a buffet table and saying, “It all looks great. Maybe later.” Or just, “No, thank you.” Try taking a walk alone and saying, “No, thank you,” in a pleasant but firm way, about a thousand times. At some point, it will just roll off the tongue.

Dr. Akshad Singi recommends micro-visualizing: In the evening, he uses a time calendar to set up the day’s schedule, and then in the morning, he visualizes it:

I’ll start writing an article at 7:30 AM. Then, I’ll get dressed up and reach the medicine outpatient department by 9:30 AM. After my duty is over, I’ll have lunch at 2 PM, followed by a nap at 3 PM. Then, I’ll go to the gym at 4…

Granted, this sounds unspeakably boring. Still, it may be worth trying, in preparation for a major athletic event, or when the crazy time comes of doing every possible thing to get into your chosen institution of higher learning. Or to back up your weight loss resolutions.

Bottom line: There are techniques that, used in conjunction with BrainWeighve, can supercharge the experience. You may have heard the expression, “Different strokes for different folks.” Different jokes, different cloaks, different pokes… Not everything works for everybody, so keep poking around until you find something that works for you, and ride it ’til the wheels fall off!

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “4 Unsexy One-Minute Habits That Save Me 30+ Hours Every Week,” BetterHumans.pub, 09/19/22

Use Your Brain to Save Your Body — 3

If you could gain a superpower like invisibility or seeing the future, would you take it and use it? Okay, this power isn’t quite as impressive, but it can really make a difference. It is obvious that the hand-brain alliance can be a powerful force in helping us train our brains to give up their old, obesity-enabling ways and jump to a new track.

Example: A group of non-Greek children were asked to learn letters of the Greek alphabet. Some printed the strange symbols by hand; some used keyboards. Later, they were asked if they had ever seen the letters before, and the hand-printing kids remembered a lot more than the typing kids. Reporters Daniel J. Plebanek and Karin H. James discovered,

[T]he brain learns letters that are written by hand much more quickly than those that are typed. It does not matter how you write — printing, cursive, abbreviations, it just matters that you write by hand.

Other research has shown that college students more thoroughly remember what the prof said if they take class notes by hand, instead of typing them.

You are the boss of it

Dr. Nicole LePera encourages changing the subconscious mind, which holds stubborn ideas about how to run your life. “Autopilot is gonna do what autopilot has always done.” Unless, of course, the brain’s owner takes it in hand and tells it what’s what. The subconscious mind is very impressionable, and rather than let it be impressed with every stray idea that we hear all day long, we can control that process and impress our minds with content that does us some good, instead.

One way to do this is through journaling, in the morning if possible, because it sets up expectations — no, more than that, it sets up intentions — for how the day will go. If you don’t know what to say, start with, “I am grateful for…” Or mention three personality traits you would like to develop. Practice putting energy into cultivating the hand-brain connection. Just as test-taking is “a skill that you can learn” (see illustration), thinking about your issues is also a learnable skill. Handwriting or printing about issues makes the brain sit up and take notice.

The depths of us

The conscious mind can usually tell the difference between what’s real and what you imagine. The subconscious operates differently. This often works against you, but it can be made to work for you instead. You can tell your brain that you’re not someone who snacks between meals, and after a while, it just might actually get busy carving new neural pathways. As the Compartmentalize screen says, “Your brain unconsciously works on the problem in the background…”

In other words, you can train your gray matter to create a “new normal” for yourself. Of course, no one instantly, automatically becomes a different person. It takes some patience, and repetitive, consistent effort. Part of that effort could include using previously established techniques along with the BrainWeighve app’s suggestions.

The hand and the brain were developed by evolution to work together, so we need to take advantage of that partnership. In this specific case, the suggestion is being made to combine the power of the hand-brain connection with the potential of the BrainWeighve phone application, because writing out your thoughts before entering them into your device could make a meaningful difference to how well everything turns out.

(To be continued…)

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “Why Handwriting is Good for Your Brain,” FrontiersIn.org, 04/06/22
Source: “How to Reprogram Your Subconscious Through Journaling,” YouTube, 2020

Use Your Brain to Save Your Body, 2

Author William Klemm, Ph.D., says:

There is a whole field of research known as “haptics,” which includes the interactions of touch, hand movements, and brain function. Cursive writing helps train the brain to integrate visual, and tactile information, and fine motor dexterity.

When learning cursive writing,

[T]he brain develops functional specialization that integrates both sensation, movement control, and thinking. Brain imaging studies reveal that multiple areas of brain become co-activated during the learning of cursive writing… as opposed to typing or just visual practice.

In one research program, five-year-olds who had never done anything like this before were divided into groups that received different kinds of instruction on how to form letters. Dr. Klemm wrote,

In children who had practiced self-generated printing by hand, the neural activity was far more enhanced and “adult-like” than in those who had simply looked at letters. The brain’s “reading circuit” of linked regions that are activated during reading was activated during hand writing, but not during typing.

Whether in handwriting or printing, the brain has to do certain tasks that are simply not required when using a computer keyboard, and it turns out that those skills apply to more than just writing.

Many discoveries have been made over the past years. For Forbes.com, Nancy Olson reported

Handwriting increases neural activity in certain sections of the brain… the mere action of writing by hand unleashes creativity not easily accessed in any other way… Handwriting sharpens the brain and helps us learn… Apparently sequential hand movements, like those used in handwriting, activate large regions of the brain responsible for thinking, language, healing and working memory.

Olson interviewed neuroscientist Dr. Claudia Aguirre, who said,

Writing by hand is a powerful tool for learning, relaxation, creativity and connection…

What does this have to do with BrainWeighve? Everything. Because, what is the app for? To help us learn about ourselves. To help us relax, and not be stressed out over problems and challenges. To inspire creativity in the ways we handle these problems and challenges. To connect us with the strong and capable parts of ourselves. To heal the psychological bruises that lead us into destructive relationships with food.

(To be continued…)

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “Why Writing by Hand Could Make You Smarter,” SolarisPediatricTherapy.com, undated
Source: “Three Ways That Handwriting With A Pen Positively Affects Your Brain,” Forbes.com, 05/15/16
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Profiles: Kids Struggling with Weight

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The Book

OVERWEIGHT: What Kids Say explores the obesity problem from the often-overlooked perspective of children struggling with being overweight.

About Dr. Robert A. Pretlow

Dr. Robert A. Pretlow is a pediatrician and childhood obesity specialist. He has been researching and spreading awareness on the childhood obesity epidemic in the US for more than a decade.
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Presentations

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the American Society of Animal Science 2020 Conference
What’s Causing Obesity in Companion Animals and What Can We Do About It

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the World Obesity Federation 2019 Conference:
Food/Eating Addiction and the Displacement Mechanism

Dr. Pretlow’s Multi-Center Clinical Trial Kick-off Speech 2018:
Obesity: Tackling the Root Cause

Dr. Pretlow’s 2017 Workshop on
Treatment of Obesity Using the Addiction Model

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation for
TEC and UNC 2016

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the 2015 Obesity Summit in London, UK.

Dr. Pretlow’s invited keynote at the 2014 European Childhood Obesity Group Congress in Salzburg, Austria.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2013 European Congress on Obesity in Liverpool, UK.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2011 International Conference on Childhood Obesity in Lisbon, Portugal.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2010 Uniting Against Childhood Obesity Conference in Houston, TX.

Food & Health Resources