Other Expenses, Like Shame and Blame

We have been discussing the fiscal costs to society (namely, us) of obesity. But what are the psychological costs of shame and blame, and who should bear those costs? Who should be held responsible for the friction — the administrators of a particular school, the parents, the voters, the students, or all or none of them?
Psychology is a tricky subject, because definitions of responsibility and of psychological damage vary from place to place and even within a single community. Furthermore, every related expanse, to whatever degree it originates in the mind, contains the possibility of costing real dollars eventually, especially when a publicity-attracting event like a lawsuit or the firing of an administrator comes along.
When the “shame and blame” bills come due — as they inevitably will — dollars will be demanded, and paid. First in line to empty their wallets are parents, who might pay for “fat camp;” for the services of a mental health professional in person or online; for two entire sets of clothing for a child whose weight fluctuates wildly; for pricey “health foods” in hopes that a change of diet will do the trick; or who entertain the mistaken belief that a child’s away-from-home food consumption can be controlled.
On the public stage
The example might be cited of an obese child soaking up public money in order to try losing weight, and what a disgrace it is, because the funds could have been used instead for some other child who is fighting a serious infection. How unacceptable it would be for one to suffer because limited resources are being used for the other! A crudely unsympathetic adult might wonder why a kid who got fat by greedily eating everything he could get their hands on should receive help, to the detriment of a poor, innocent child who suffers an illness that she or he was not responsible for contracting.
Is that fair? Aren’t the wrong sort of people depleting public resources that more rightfully belong to the more deserving? (Apologies to the reader, but some folks do see it this way.) But to mention that view is an effective segue into the topic of blame and shame, and how much those impulses influence the entire field of obesity in myriad ways.
West Coast discontent
This issue was recently the cause of public censure when a teacher’s actions were investigated because of exam questions that some critics deemed “inappropriate.”
Lowell High School, part of the San Francisco Unified School District, is known in one context
“one of the highest performing public high schools” in California. Math teacher Tom Chan composed some exam questions that were deemed “inappropriate” because of content that struck critics as being sexist and fat-shaming. According to the San Francisco Chronicle, students were tasked with calculating “[…] how much it would cost to pay for dinner for girls who weigh 120 versus 220 pounds.”
Worse yet, another quiz question was said to be titled “Mr. Chan vs. The Fat Kid (part 2).”
The entire school system has an anonymous system known as “See Something, Say Something,” through which concerned participants can bring questionable actions to the attention of trusted adults.
Judging by its informative website, Lowell High appears to be an outstanding institution. Its language department encompasses eight languages, and the Visual and Performing Arts Department is said to be exceptional. Whopping 27 sports are practiced by 32 teams; 100 clubs and service organizations are active; and the institution boasts programs that specialize in Wellness, Peer Resources, and CSF Tutoring.
Most importantly,
Lowell endeavors to create a just and equitable society where individual responsibilities are clearly defined and personal rights guaranteed. It endorses the concept of an integrated school where cultural and social diversity enrich the lives of all students.
(To be continued…)
Your responses and feedback are welcome!
Source: “Lowell teacher investigated due to reported ‘inappropriate’ exam questions,” SFGate.com, 03/03/26
Source: “Lowell High School,” sfusd.edu, undated
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