The Privilege to Give

Most of us who are not doctors or professors do not keep up with the medical journals. But we are all familiar with the previous decades’ level of obesity awareness, because it has been extensively (some would say oppressively) personified in — tah-dah! Oprah Winfrey.

Make a movie about the atomic bomb, and call it Oppenheimer. Make a movie about the never-ending struggle against body fat, and call it… Oh, never mind, let’s get serious. As Oprah has said,

I’ve been on this journey for most of my life… I don’t know if there is another public person whose weight struggle has been exploited as much as mine over the years.

Oprah has talked about a 1990 incident proving there are some human frailties from which wealth and fame cannot shield a person. It was the sort of humiliating misconception that could happen in anyone’s mind, no matter what their scale of living. On the cover of TV Guide magazine, there was a picture of her with the text, “Best and Worst-Dressed List.”

In a regular person’s life, it could have been a neighborhood news-sheet. In either case, the surprise was pleasant for only a second, until Oprah realized she had not been chosen as best-dressed. Instead, she had been picked to represent being a terrible example: “bumpy, lumpy and downright dumpy.” How many dollars would compensate for that embarrassment?

No such thing as bad publicity

The life of a star has a lot of downsides. An aspiring professional entertainer gets used to attracting disrespectful comments from segments of the public. It just comes with the territory. To be publicly recognizable is no asset to most people who value their mental health. But there is a tremendous upside.

Not everyone out there is paying attention to you for harmful reasons (especially if you are as charismatic as Oprah!). Exposure is the price of attention, and attention can be a very positive factor, because when the admiring fans hear about what you are doing, at least a percentage of them will do it too. So a wealthy, famous person is not only able to contribute financial support to a favorite cause, but is also able to inspire others. If the beloved entertainer can donate millions, even if that is only a fraction of their income, the ordinary person feels more like “What the heck, I’ll kick in one-tenth of a percent of my income, too.”

Oprah Winfrey’s influence has been vast because people believe and trust her, and sense the importance she places on retaining a genuine self, amidst the glitter and acclaim. Her rough childhood counted, too. Oprah had enough experience with the serious problems of life to want to help other people who face frightening challenges.

An Oprah-approved institution

We mentioned Shades of Hope Treatment Center, where in 2011, Oprah produced the reality TV show “Addicted to Food,” which followed eight people through the program. Oprah had been familiar with the facility for years.

Since the fall of 2003, singer Wynonna Judd had been confiding in her, in front of the cameras, about her severe food dependency. Like the ordinary citizens who were later featured on Oprah’s network show, Judd checked into the residential treatment center.

When the songstress was later interviewed by Larry King, she described her problem:

It was consuming a lot of my life… I mean food to me is what alcohol is to the alcoholic… You know the business. One minute you’re number one. The next minute you’re number zero. And I had just been using food for every emotion I had. If I was joyful, we’d go out to eat… [I]t became too much, so I did something about it.

People are not born knowing how to fix themselves, but there certainly are learnable skills that can lead strongly toward wellness. In many cases, this happens for many reasons and in many ways. This is why we need such institutions, as well as the current technology that fosters sophisticated levels of self-help.

Oprah’s charitable contributions, even when they have nothing to do with obesity, all aim to help build people better lives. We will next take a look at another of her projects which, while not directly connected to obesity, is aimed at helping young women build lives so satisfactory that they automatically preclude a lot of the self-destructive psychological pain that brings on addictive behaviors or even just carelessness, either one of which is capable of leading to medically significant obesity.

[Note: The photo is a wax figure.]

Your responses and feedback are welcome!

Source: “Oprah Reveals The Secret Behind Her Recent Weight Loss,” Essence.com, 12/08/23
Source: “Change is here. Hope is here.,” ShadesOfHope.com, undated
Image by Petr Kratochvil/License: CC0 Public Domain

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Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the American Society of Animal Science 2020 Conference
What’s Causing Obesity in Companion Animals and What Can We Do About It

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the World Obesity Federation 2019 Conference:
Food/Eating Addiction and the Displacement Mechanism

Dr. Pretlow’s Multi-Center Clinical Trial Kick-off Speech 2018:
Obesity: Tackling the Root Cause

Dr. Pretlow’s 2017 Workshop on
Treatment of Obesity Using the Addiction Model

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation for
TEC and UNC 2016

Dr. Pretlow’s invited presentation at the 2015 Obesity Summit in London, UK.

Dr. Pretlow’s invited keynote at the 2014 European Childhood Obesity Group Congress in Salzburg, Austria.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2013 European Congress on Obesity in Liverpool, UK.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2011 International Conference on Childhood Obesity in Lisbon, Portugal.

Dr. Pretlow’s presentation at the 2010 Uniting Against Childhood Obesity Conference in Houston, TX.

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