Oprah Winfrey is a certain kind of icon. She is absolutely not just another self-destructive doomed genius; never was and never will be a psychological basket case like Amy Winehouse, for instance. Oprah is brilliantly intelligent, and glamorous, capable of being a force of nature when necessary, and clearly a natural-born leader. But none of that could have happened without her relatability.
The reason people follow her is neither that she is so glitteringly different, nor that she is so very typical, although both are true. Her existence and accomplishments have led her to become a sort of template. At one point, during a panel discussion on “The State of Weight,” Oprah confirmed that her highest number had been 237 pounds, and added, “I’m Oprah Winfrey, and I know all that comes with that, but I get treated differently if I’m 200-plus pounds versus under 200 pounds.”
In other words, despite being wealthy and famous, she could still totally connect with the millions of women who feel that more body fat makes them “less than,” which had become the enlightened way to say “inferior.” Sitting for a magazine profile, she told a journalist,
I don’t know if there is another public person whose weight struggle has been exploited as much as mine over the years… This is a world that has shamed people for being overweight forever, and all of us who have lived it know that people treat you differently, they just do.
This talking point shone a light on the psychological double-bind that imprisons women regardless of their situations in life. The ambient culture brainwashes us every day into believing that carrying extra pounds is unacceptable and probably even immoral. That cruel mindset leads women into feeling scorn, rather than compassion — not only toward other women — but toward themselves. Just to put the icing on the cake, so to speak, we are supposed to go whole-hog with that belief, and are expected to condemn our sisters for being in the same physical condition that we fear and dread — if we are not in it already.
Through keeping an eye on Oprah, we follow every important twist and turn of the obesity issue in the fin de siècle period, and in the early years of our present century. As surely as Willie Nelson is Country & Western, Oprah Winfrey is Obesity Awareness.
History
Our take on the saga began with “Oprah Through the Years, Part 1” and so far has progressed through Part 21, and this conscientiously thorough coverage practically guarantees that there is something in it for everybody.
Then, the Childhood Obesity News blog gave Ms. Winfrey a well-earned break for a while, pausing an overview of her career about 10 years into the present century. In 2011, she produced a TV reality show called “Addicted to Food.” The venue was the Shades of Hope Treatment Center, a place to exorcise pain from the hearts of people who grew up in families characterized by dysfunction and/or abuse and/or addiction.
The program relied on numbers less than some others have done. Clients’ weights could be usefully recorded for the sake of the science, but did not have to be shared. One of the most audacious features of this program was the no-entertainment standard, which precluded both printed and televised media. You’re there to feel things, as a route to fixing yourself — so no hiding out in any media la-la land. (It does seem like this principle could usefully be emphasized, in programs everywhere, a lot more than it is currently.)
Here is a typical Shades of Hope quotation:
Your body, mind, and soul were designed to heal. Because we are holistic beings, all of these aspects of ourselves come into play when we heal — no matter what you’ve been through or are going through right now.
Next time, we pick up with Oprah again. Meanwhile, it is worth mentioning what might be called a universal truth. When it comes to kicking a habit, one factor carries over into many different therapeutic approaches: Their most outstanding and characteristic feature is the emphasis on keeping the commitment every second of every minute of every day.
Some people just are not cut out for that. Recovery is a long-term condition if ever there was one, and the better at it you are, the more chance you have of living long enough to develop real expertise. People can be quite adaptive when they want to be, which is why a tool like BrainWeighve, for an excellent example, can be surprisingly useful.
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Source: “Oprah Reveals The Secret Behind Her Recent Weight Loss,” Essence.com, 12/08/23
Source: “Change is here. Hope is here.,” ShadesOfHope.com, undated
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